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How to Negotiate with Your Aging Parents?

How to convince parents to accept home care assistanceFrom the moment we learn how to walk, we start pursuing new challenges to overcome, the more demanding the better. It’s the natural way of things. As a result, we become reluctant to accept support and assistance from others because we want to be independent. 

Fast forward to old age and things aren’t too different: the elderly need help and support on a daily basis, but by that point they become so used to doing things their way that they are unwilling to compromise on even the most trivial matters. As we get older, we become more and more set in our ways, to the point where even the slightest change of routine becomes a problem. This is especially true of dementia patients.

You may be acting with their best interest at heart but you will need to develop superior negotiation skills if you want to get your aging parents to listen. Even perfectly functional families can encounter difficulty when elderly care is concerned. You may find it extremely challenging to get your elderly loved one to accept your own help, let alone the day-to-day presence of a specialist in in home care in Pacific Palisades, CA in their home. But it is not unattainable.

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How to Avoid Family Conflicts over Aging Parents

How do you talk to your siblings about your aging parentsNothing can make us feel as miserable like coming into conflict with family members, be it our aging parents who need our help but refuse to listen, our kids who think we are nagging old bores or our siblings from whom we’ve drifted apart at some point. 

The worst part is that, even in the most functional families, a drastic change of circumstances can lead to conflict and conflicts tend to escalate no matter how hard we try to stop that from happening, especially if a conflict has arisen over something as serious as taking care of the elderly. 

Having to work full time and act as a caregiver of an aging parent is enough to push you over the edge, which is one reason for the high demand for senior home care in Pacific Palisades, especially if you feel like you’re alone and your siblings refuse to pitch in and help out. So how do you avoid family conflicts over aging parents and work out a solution in the best interest of everyone involved?

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